When you join an online dating service, seeking a girl you like … may even love. That girl is
looking for a man who can, or even love. What is sought is not a girl who wants her best friend or
your idea of what seems the perfect man thinks or talks like or as. Thus, in order to find the girl for
you … and is there … you need to be completely honest with you about yourself when writing the
online profile, during the dating process and beyond.
The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship (s). What
went well? What went wrong? What do you really like the last girl? No? Do not assume that just
because you hated your last girl was so totally self-involved that he could not see anything more,
you can overlook that quality this time. You do not.
If you are not 6’1 “with a six-pack to be proud, not meant to be. If you are a bar tender, do not
claim to be a lawyer with a six figure income. If you are 40 going on 50, it is not 30 something.
Remember, the idea here is to find a girl who likes exactly as you are. If you have lied in his
profile, the first face to face meeting to remove all doubts that you are a liar … and probably a trick, too.
Finally, once you’ve found a girl who thinks he can be the one for you, for God sakes, cancel your
membership online dating service. After all, you know, and she knows that online dating services
are intended for those seeking … those who have not found or been found.