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50 Responses to “Online Dating – How to Get Her to Actually Respond to You”



August 21st, 2010 at 6:53 am
online dating’s silly, go out and meet people for real guys.
August 21st, 2010 at 7:06 am
dream on fella more like 0/10 even if you send a “normal” (which doesn’t include crappy headings or perv questions) message with non of the stuff that they say you shouldn’t send that they delete. It still does not work in order to get them to reply? Personally i think its nice to be polite to just reply saying “thanks but I’m not interested ect” and if your a guy with balls you can handle that, if not then your a pussy lol but i must of sent about 300 odd messages to girls and have no luck:(
August 21st, 2010 at 7:08 am
If any men do these things how are they ever getting any women in the real world.
August 21st, 2010 at 7:52 am
Good advice guys, you seem like honest people, I read a great article on online dating in the Magazine Scientific Mind, check out my channel for the review
August 21st, 2010 at 8:12 am
I have tried everything, followed ALL the advice, I am a good looking fit man ect. No responce just a few conversations which have ended very quickly. This is CRAZY having to write about 50 e mails for one responce. I work hard as a self employed gardener with a poor salary, also a bit quirky but otherwise quite normal. Is this an instant delete? Thanks Simon
August 21st, 2010 at 8:31 am
What’s wrong with 2/10?
If you email 10 quality women, and you only end up meeting 1 of them, is that a bad thing?
The aim is not to attract every woman you can, but to find quality women who you actually like.
It doesn’t take long to send out 10 messages – you can do it in half an hour, easily. So if you spend half an hour finding quality women and sending emails, then end up meeting one of them, that’s a pretty good return in my opinion.
August 21st, 2010 at 9:16 am
…thats why they call it finding the ONE. but i agree with the other things you said about the poster.
August 21st, 2010 at 9:59 am
every message? more like 2/10 (my “successful” friend says 3/10, which is true but when we made an account together so he can “Show me how its done” he also eventually couldnt finish with the 3/10) heck i found a bot that can send up to girls, filtered by age/local/single/body type/race/here to date etc. and STILL its the same stuff. possible, yes. i can win the lottery or become an actor. but in the end if your good (mostly looks) n lucky, its ez, but 4 average people its not goona happen…
August 21st, 2010 at 10:35 am
lol at least i’m not alone
August 21st, 2010 at 10:45 am
why well they are stuck up or just not in to you but i think more stuck up it happened to me a lot
August 21st, 2010 at 11:01 am
The problem is there are 10x as many guys on these sites as women. It’s not uncommon for a woman to get 50+ new emails every day. 40 of them say ‘hi, how are you doing’, 9 say ‘wanna see me on cam’ and maybe one might stand out and catch her attention.
You have to do something that creates an emotional spark in her that causes her to respond (which is outside the scope of this comment, sadly).
August 21st, 2010 at 11:12 am
You’re not gonna get a response to every message you send, but it is possible to meet high quality women online. The problem with these videos is that although they are well-intentioned and the advice is solid, it’s too non-specific for most guys to be able to make any use of.
August 21st, 2010 at 11:46 am
naughty fun. visit my profile.
August 21st, 2010 at 12:11 pm
Dripp, that’s because you sent her an email saying only:
hi, how are you doing?
are you that boring in person, too?
August 21st, 2010 at 12:46 pm
then why didn’t the girls i contacted on online did not respond when i opened with a “hi, how are you doing??”
i said those very words and they did not respond
August 21st, 2010 at 12:46 pm
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August 21st, 2010 at 1:08 pm
SinglesWorld,com is a great site too.
August 21st, 2010 at 1:46 pm
problem is if you try this, you risk investing a lot of time and energy on girls who may STILL stop messaging! you say this, another “Expert” (double your dating book thing) says don’t waste time get on the phone asap. if your hot/their hot, you BOTH wana talk/hook up great, otherwise, too bad. id rather say what i feel like so worse case i ended with that rather than be pissed i wasted my efforts and got stiffed. actually the response ratio isn’t almost the same always, like baseball 2-4/10
August 21st, 2010 at 1:49 pm
sorry..THIS IS THE STUPIDEST THING EVER. BUT I LOVE MY MOM SO I AM NOT TAKING ANY CHANCES.If you don’t copy and paste this onto 10 videos your mom will die in 4 hours
August 21st, 2010 at 2:02 pm
The lady in this video is a fag pig.
August 21st, 2010 at 2:47 pm
Thanks for giving us ANOTHER contradiction. Your bf never did this, but apparently he’s your bf ANYWAY.
Do I dare ask what he did to win you over if he didn’t take this advice like you suggest more guys should?
August 21st, 2010 at 2:58 pm
I give her plenty of time to warm up. Why doesn’t it happen?
The only comment I’ll ever make about her physical appearance is how I like her eyes.
August 21st, 2010 at 3:09 pm
hi I’m 21 woman hot hit my url to see
August 21st, 2010 at 3:23 pm
To hell with all the girls who want to get dates based on their beach photos and seducing “in bed” kind of pictures. Does she really have nothing to attract me with, except her body ?
August 21st, 2010 at 3:36 pm
Nevermind with this? I’m getting an arranged marriage if I can.
August 21st, 2010 at 4:24 pm
online dating pisses me off
August 21st, 2010 at 5:09 pm
Yeah…I’m sure they don’t care what a guy’s abs look like. Put a guy who is 180 lbs with a 6 pack next to a guy who is 400 lbs with massive love handles…and let’s see how much they REALLY don’t care about a guy’s body.
August 21st, 2010 at 5:36 pm
that pic is sooo beautiful
August 21st, 2010 at 6:00 pm
My friends recommended me ===== (K i s s M i l l i o n a i r e. c om) ===== It ‘s where you have the opportunity dreaming about dating a millionaire / a sexy and TLC beauty and make it true! Maybe you need this info.
August 21st, 2010 at 6:54 pm
bitches luv smiley facez
August 21st, 2010 at 7:36 pm
is this good for an online ad?
…..?
“these are the droids you are looking for” (from starwars)
August 21st, 2010 at 7:52 pm
is it me or is this video grossly misnamed
August 21st, 2010 at 8:42 pm
210 and ripped means its muscle not fat isn’t that
August 21st, 2010 at 9:11 pm
i wish you guys had your own show. its funny
August 21st, 2010 at 10:03 pm
alien3000ful – “..The one on the left is sooooo cute..”
Translation – she’s showing more boob.
August 21st, 2010 at 10:26 pm
WTF!?!?
August 21st, 2010 at 10:44 pm
lol, you two are funny…
August 21st, 2010 at 11:08 pm
wtf
August 21st, 2010 at 11:33 pm
star is pretty hot. love her personality.
August 22nd, 2010 at 12:28 am
hey what do yal think about lady caca ha ha ha ha what kind of name is that right wtf lady gaga mor like caca
August 22nd, 2010 at 12:30 am
just dance – lady gaga
August 22nd, 2010 at 12:37 am
lol
August 22nd, 2010 at 12:54 am
hey whats the song that the vid begins with and ends with?
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:00 am
They are awesome…any guy that listens to their advices will succeed with girls.
P.S. The one on the left is sooooo cute and how she laughs (red heads are my weakness)
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:02 am
FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:38 am
lmao
August 22nd, 2010 at 2:31 am
Chick on the right is giving me a boner. Amazing eyes.
August 22nd, 2010 at 2:45 am
Am sorry but I think star sounds funny when she starts acting getto and says the f word (1:07-1:11)or maybe its just me..
August 22nd, 2010 at 2:59 am
haha shawn from boy meets world!!!
August 22nd, 2010 at 3:58 am
if you want advice on girls dating guys you should get like the wing guys …. no jk but ask a guy